Fix nap condition for pollset wakeup

If:
- one thread issues a kick forcing pollset re-evaluation
- concurrently with a second thread forcing a specific poller to be awoken
And:
- both threads kicks are processed as a single wakeup
Then:
- since we enqueue nothing to the exec_ctx in this situation, we responded to the wakeup by doing another poll until the timeout, ignoring urgent work up the stack

Fix this by flagging that a specific worker was designated to be awoken (since this is a good signal that we really really need to wake up), and use that to still re-evaluate the poll set, but with an immediate deadline so that we fall out of the poll loop as soon as possible.