Shutting down is synchronous under Windows, so we don't want to do that while holding a lock.

With the backup poller gone, the caller of grpc_pollset_work is expecting it to sleep. Aligning the behavior of the Windows port with the behavior of the Posix port.

Since alarm checks may mutate work deadlines for pollsets, the value
returned from maybe_work is meaningless. Instead, maybe pollset_work
always return 1 if maybe_work is invoked, and then redo the deadline
check _on the next call_ to pollset_work.

And free ops_array that was leaking.

- introduces a #wait method on the call operation view
- invokes #wait on a Notifier that is created for all operations
- ensures the Notifier is invoked if necessary whenever a client request
  completes
- updates the interop_test to use op.wait before checking if the call
  was cancelled.

- ALPN may not be available:
  - because OpenSSL does not support it.
  - because one of the peers does not support it.
- Tested manually end to end by forcing TSI_OPENSSL_ALPN_SUPPORT to 0.
  Also tested if only one of the peers supports ALPN.

state (including channels)

It was still linking to my pull request's podspec.

Pull request #1577 removes the backup poller internal to completion
queues so this test needs to use extra threads to drive the work done
inside the completion queues by continuously calling each completion
queue's get method.